Unmasking In Three Simple Steps

Unmaskery is designed to be simple to start and transformative when you finish. Put in the effort, and the insights are entirely yours to keep.

Step 1

Self Discovery

Just 5 minutes a day answering one deep question through audio. Tackle them daily or binge them all — your choice.

Step 2

External Discovery

Ask up to 10 people from your life to answer 5 anonymous questions about you through audio. We handle everything.

Step 3

Uncover Insights

Compare your inner perspective with your network's feedback to reveal the gaps between how you see yourself and how others experience you.

Step 1

Self Discovery

Set up

Choose Your Theme

Choose your discovery focus: Leadership & Influence, Relationships & Connection, Communication & Expression, Personal Growth & Self-Awareness, Professional Identity & Career, or Creativity & Innovation. Each theme offers a personalised 14-day journey combining deep self-reflection with real external feedback. Select the area that feels most urgent—or the one you've been avoiding—and discover the authentic you waiting on the other side.

Lights, camera, action!

Self Discovery Starts

You've chosen your theme—now dive in with your first questions. Use the reflective guides to explore your thoughts deeply and aim for 5-minute answers to unlock the richest insights. Don't rush through with surface-level responses; the uncomfortable truths and genuine revelations emerge when you sit with the questions and let them challenge your assumptions. Your journey to authentic self-awareness starts here.

On your timeline

14 Days of Discovery

Whether you tackle one question daily, dedicate focused weekend sessions, or power through multiple questions when inspiration strikes—choose the rhythm that works for your life. But remember: this isn't a race to the finish line. Each question deserves space to breathe and challenge you. The real insights come when you resist the urge to give quick, comfortable answers and instead sit with the discomfort of honest reflection. Quality over speed will determine how transformative your journey becomes.

Step 2

External Discovery

Feedback

Invite Your People

Add the names and emails of people you'd like feedback from—friends, family, colleagues, anyone who knows you well. You can include a personal message with each invitation, then we'll handle sending the invites, follow-up reminders, and collecting their audio responses.

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Your People Give Feedback

The people you choose will receive emails from Unmaskery with your personal message and clear context about what you're asking for. We assure them their feedback will remain completely anonymous. They simply click the email link to access our platform and answer 5 audio questions about you—no signup required, as their responses are automatically linked to your journey.

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Your Insights Await

Once your contacts have shared their feedback and you've completed your 14-day self-discovery journey, you'll unlock your full insights report. This is where you can finally see both perspectives side by side and discover the gaps between how you see yourself and how others experience you.

Step 3

Uncover your insights

Transcriptions

Review the source

Our AI has automatically transcribed all your self-discovery and external feedback into readable text for easy review. Take your time reading through each response, and use the AI summaries to quickly grasp the key insights from each answer.

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Tag Your Insights

As you review each response, you can highlight specific parts and tag them as either a "mask" (something you're consciously hiding) or a "blind spot" (something you're unaware of). Our AI will also suggest key moments worth considering. This tagging process helps create your personalised insights dashboard, making sense of all the patterns that emerge.

Authenticity begins

Explore Your Masks

You now have access to multiple insights dashboards—from comparison tables between your self-perception and external feedback, to themes and pattern recognition. These discoveries can bring up all sorts of emotions, which is why you'll also have your own AI coach providing supportive responses to each insight. Once you've explored all your masks and blind spots, you can download comprehensive PDFs to keep or share these revelations with anyone you choose. Your transformation journey starts here.

FAQs

Find answers to common questions about self-discovery and our feedback process.

What is self-discovery?

Self-discovery is the process of gaining insight into your own character, values, and motivations. It helps you understand your strengths and weaknesses, leading to personal growth. Our platform facilitates this journey by allowing you to reflect and receive feedback.

Do I need to be tech-savvy to use this?

ot at all. If you can send a voice message, you can use Unmaskery. We test your setup first to make sure everything works smoothly on your phone or computer.

Who can I ask for feedback?

You can ask friends, family, colleagues, or anyone you trust to provide honest feedback. Choose individuals who know you well and can offer constructive insights. This diverse input can enhance your self-discovery experience.

Will people know what others said about me?

Absolutely not. All feedback is completely anonymous—you'll never know who said what. Your contacts' responses are kept separate and unidentifiable.

What if I don't want to ask certain people for feedback?

You're in complete control. Choose anyone from your life—family, friends, colleagues, even acquaintances. You decide who to include and can personalise each invitation.

What if people don't respond to my feedback request?

We send gentle reminders and make it super easy for them (just 5 minutes, no signup required). Most people are actually honoured to be asked and curious about the process themselves.

What if I disagree with what people say about me?

Perfect—that's exactly what we're looking for. You decide whether gaps are "blind spots" to address or "masks" you're choosing to keep. There's no pressure to change anything.

What exactly do I get at the end?

Comprehensive insights dashboard comparing your self-perception with external feedback, AI-identified patterns and themes, personalised coaching responses, and downloadable PDF reports you can keep forever.

Is this like therapy or coaching?

t's a structured self-discovery tool, not therapy. Think of it as a mirror that shows you how you come across to others, with AI guidance to help you interpret what you find.

What if I don't like what I discover?

That's why we have a 7-day money-back guarantee. Plus, remember—you're in control of what you do with any insights. Nothing is prescriptive.

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Get Your Free '101 Masks We Wear' Guide

A free comprehensive guide revealing the 101 most common masks people wear in everyday life—from the workplace people-pleaser to the social media perfectionist. Discover which ones you might be wearing without even realising it, and understand why we all put on these protective personas in different situations. This isn't about judging your masks, it's about recognising them so you can choose when and where to wear them intentionally.